Has anyone ever noticed that many of the foreign-born escorts in New York are of the mature variety? And that if you want a girl in her twenties or teens you have to go American? Ever wonder why that is? There’s actually an explanation for this phenomenon. And it lies with the tastes of our men – versus the tastes of foreign men:
Many cultures outside the USA are even more youth-oriented than ours. Once a girl hits the age of say…25, she’s already used/damaged goods and considered over-the-hill for this business. Guys with currency of the realm are not interested in buying their services. So what’s a girl to do? Answer: Go to a country where men aren’t so hung up on youth. And that country is AMERICA! A while back I broached this subject with a forty-something client from Brazil who explained to me that 16 year-old girls litter the nude beaches in Rio. They’re all over the place vogueing, preening and selling. And that’s what Brazilian men want. Once a girl is 21, she’s already too old. Hence, the mature girls come to New York to earn dollars, which they send back to Brazil where they’re valuable. Many end up building houses and/or buying buildings in Brazil with the money they make here. And this is why we have “The Million Brazilian Cotillion” in New York.
Venezuela is another country steeped in youth and flash. On many occasions, it’s been explained to me that Venezuelan girls will spend all their money on clothing, make-up and anything else to make themselves beautiful only to live in God-awful shacks and hovels. The youngsters draw all the attention while mature ladies go ignored.
And finally, I recently asked a Korean girl about why there were so many Koreans in New York. Among other things which she asked me not to divulge, was once again …the explanation that the girls stay in Korea and work when they’re in their late teens and early twenties, only to be put out to pasture by the Korean man’s distaste for girls over the age of 25 to 30. And that is when they come to The States, a country whose men don’t have a problem with a girl who hit puberty more than two years before.
And sooo…American men can pat themselves on the back in the realization that we are a culture of enlightenment in the eyes of many foreigners…at least when it comes to our maturity about accepting women who are “mature.” And I count myself among the enlightened. My aforementioned relationships are with girls in their 40’s. And that does NOT present a problem to me. The fact that they’re insane is much more relevant than their age. I simply do NOT find their bodies to be too aged to stiffen my essence.
And then there’s the old mythology about mature ladies doing it better and with more care. Well…I don’t know about all that. But I do know that the girls with whom I have a personal rapport generally seem to be in the mature category, though there have been times during which I’ve bonded with youngsters who gaze upon me as a confidant, mentor or father figure. And that’s when I bring in all my MTV and VH1 viewing to relate. Sometimes that can build a meaningful bond, too. But really, I’m simple. I just like a girl who turns me on. And that girl can come from a wide age demographic. Hey! I’m an American. And the stereotype DOES apply. A woman can be over the age of 25 or 30 and still look hot to me!