Yesterday during a phone conversation with an old female friend, the girl revealed that a mutual acquaintance thinks I don’t like women very much. Predictably, my phone buddy was afraid I’d be offended and didn’t want to reveal exactly whose opinion she was forwarding. Then three seconds later, she broke down and let me know. And that was a good thing because it was not somebody I’d ever had sex with (that might have offended me) but rather, a person who reads this blog on a regular basis.
My response was decidedly not defensive. “I see where she gets that as I’m so critical of escorts in this venue.” So a little clarification on the subject. I don’t hate women – or men. I hate bull shit artists – people who talk more than they walk. Poseurs who are all sizzle and no steak if you will. Escorts tend to be people who talk a lot of smack but rarely deliver in but one realm. And so, I’m often critical of them. That’s not woman hating. That’s bull shit artist hating.
Here’s another group of bull shit artists I don’t like: Guys who go on a trick forum (a website on which guys converse about the ho’s they pay for sex) and talk about “bangin’ the shit” out of some flatbacker or other – all while compiling 3500 posts on the site! Let me give y’all a hint. If you’re paying for sex, and spending that much time bragging it up in a cyber frat house, I have an idea you aren’t all that with women. I don’t think a true player has the time for all that bull shit because he’s too busy romancing his ladies to waste the day away bragging on his conquests.
The bottom line is this: Yes, I do hate sloppy ho’s and gross-out tricks. But I don’t hate women. That’s today’s point.